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The Shame of Narcissistic & Domestic Abuse and Why Victims Find It Hard to Speak Out
Many survivors of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse struggle to speak out due to shame, fear, trauma, and safety concerns. This article explores why silence is often misunderstood and how survivors can begin seeking support safely and without judgement.

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May 135 min read


How Music Aids Healing: Why the Right Song Can Shift Your Whole Energy
Music is more than background noise. It regulates the nervous system, boosts dopamine, and helps us process emotion safely. For survivors of narcissistic abuse, the right song can restore identity and rebuild strength. From “Feeling Good” to faith-filled anthems, healing has a sound. Press play and let your energy rise.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 35 min read


Support, Safety, and Hope for Survivors of Domestic Violence during the Holiday Season
For many survivors of domestic violence, the holiday season is not a time of joy, but of heightened fear, loneliness, and emotional strain. Abuse does not pause for Christmas, and healing does not follow a festive calendar. If the holidays feel heavy, unsafe, or triggering, know this: you are not weak, ungrateful, or alone. Support, safety, and hope still exist, even now.

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Dec 15, 20255 min read


16 Days of Activism 2025: Raising Awareness, Protecting Survivors, and Standing Together
The 16 Days of Activism 2025 is a global call to end gender-based violence and stand with survivors. For many healing from narcissistic abuse, this campaign brings validation, awareness, and hope. It highlights hidden forms of emotional and psychological harm while reminding survivors that safety and dignity are human rights. Healing is activism, and every step forward is a reclaiming of power.

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Nov 28, 20254 min read


Understanding Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity
Emotional immaturity is more common than you might think. It’s not about age but about how someone handles their feelings and relationships. People with emotional immaturity traits often struggle to regulate emotions, communicate effectively, or take responsibility for their actions.

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Nov 9, 20253 min read


Healing Isn’t a Destination, It’s a Journey Back to Yourself
Healing isn’t about getting over the past, it’s learning to live with what happened and still choose peace. It’s messy, slow, and powerful. You’re not broken for still hurting or weak for needing time. Every boundary, every breath of calm, every moment you choose yourself is proof you’re healing. It’s not about becoming who you were, it’s about becoming who you were always meant to be.

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Oct 27, 20254 min read


The True Meaning of Being a Survivor
Being a survivor isn’t about hiding scars, it’s about carrying them with strength and choosing life each day. The word survivor can feel heavy, sometimes empowering, sometimes limiting. Society often misuses it, expecting constant inspiration while overlooking the pain. But reclaiming the word is powerful. It’s saying, this is my story now. Survival isn’t perfection, it’s persistence, standing tall in the messy, honest truth of your journey.

strengthofaqueen
Sep 15, 20256 min read


Generational Wounds: Understanding Abuse Trauma in Older Adults and Pathways to Support
In many communities, whether in the UK, Africa, the Caribbean, Asia, or elsewhere the older generations were raised during a time when “family business” stayed behind closed doors. There was no language for emotional abuse, no legal protection for marital rape, and no cultural encouragement to question authority.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 17, 20256 min read


Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Immaturity
Emotional immaturity can be tricky to spot, especially when it shows up in people we care about or even in ourselves. It’s not about age or intelligence but about how someone handles feelings, relationships, and challenges.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 12, 20254 min read


BIFF Method for Communicating with a Narcissist: Scripts, Examples and Boundaries
Struggling to communicate with a narcissist? The BIFF method—Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm offers a simple, powerful strategy to protect your peace while getting your point across. Learn how to respond without getting dragged into drama.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 26, 20253 min read


Understanding Narcissism Vs Emotional Immaturity: Your Path to Safe Dating Again
When you've survived narcissistic abuse, stepping back into the dating scene can be daunting. You become hyper-aware of red flags and often find yourself questioning every behavior you encounter. You might wonder, "Am I seeing narcissism again? Or is this person simply emotionally immature?"

strengthofaqueen
Jun 16, 20255 min read


Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: The Hidden Challenges
Co-parenting is often seen as the gold standard for separated parents working together, prioritising the child, and maintaining respectful communication. But what happens when the person you're co-parenting with is a narcissist? When manipulation, control, and emotional games are the norm, not the exception, traditional co-parenting is not just hard; it’s dangerous.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 1, 20254 min read


10 Things You Gave Up in a Narcissistic Relationship (Without Realising It)
Narcissistic relationships don’t always start off toxic. In fact, they often begin with love bombing, grand gestures, and emotional intensity that feels too good to be true. But slowly something changes. You begin to shrink while they expand. Their needs consume yours, and before you know it, you’ve sacrificed more than you ever intended.

strengthofaqueen
May 26, 20254 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: 7 Steps to Rebuild Your Life and Identity!
Recovering from narcissistic abuse is a profound journey of healing and self-discovery. This guide outlines seven essential steps to help you reclaim your identity and rebuild your life.

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May 6, 20252 min read


✍️ Write It Out: 5 Journaling Prompts to Help You Let Go After Narcissistic Abuse!
Letting go after surviving narcissistic abuse isn’t easy it’s courageous. The emotional scars run deep, and the manipulation often leaves survivors questioning their reality and self-worth. But one powerful tool that can help reclaim your voice and clarity is journaling.

strengthofaqueen
May 3, 20252 min read


Narcissism and Religion: Understanding the Intersection Without Judgment
Religion is a deeply personal and powerful part of many people’s lives. For some, it’s a source of comfort, guidance, and hope. For others, especially survivors of narcissistic abuse, religion can also be a complicated subject.

strengthofaqueen
Apr 10, 20254 min read


How to Support Your Partner as a Survivor of Domestic/Narcissistic Abuse!
Dating someone who has survived domestic violence or narcissistic abuse requires patience, understanding, and a deep commitment to healing. Survivors carry emotional wounds that may not always be visible but impact their relationships, trust, and sense of safety. As their partner, you have a unique opportunity to be a source of stability, support, and reassurance.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 12, 20254 min read
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