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SOAQ BLOG POSTS!


How to Identify Your Feelings After Narcissistic Abuse, Numbness, or Shutdown
After narcissistic abuse, many survivors struggle to identify what they are feeling. Emotional numbness, confusion, and shutdown are common trauma responses. This guide explores gentle, practical ways to reconnect with emotions and rebuild self-trust.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 54 min read


If You Are Unsure It's Narcissistic Abuse Read This!
If you are questioning whether what you experienced was narcissistic abuse, this guide helps you recognise the emotional signs, the confusion, and the quiet moments that can leave you feeling isolated, unheard, and unsure of yourself.

strengthofaqueen
May 223 min read


The Shame of Narcissistic & Domestic Abuse and Why Victims Find It Hard to Speak Out
Many survivors of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse struggle to speak out due to shame, fear, trauma, and safety concerns. This article explores why silence is often misunderstood and how survivors can begin seeking support safely and without judgement.

strengthofaqueen
May 135 min read


Grounding Techniques for Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
A simple 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique to help survivors of narcissistic abuse reconnect with the present moment, reduce anxiety, and feel safe in their body again. Learn how to calm your mind, rebuild self-trust, and gently support your healing using your five senses.

strengthofaqueen
Apr 193 min read


How Music Aids Healing: Why the Right Song Can Shift Your Whole Energy
Music is more than background noise. It regulates the nervous system, boosts dopamine, and helps us process emotion safely. For survivors of narcissistic abuse, the right song can restore identity and rebuild strength. From “Feeling Good” to faith-filled anthems, healing has a sound. Press play and let your energy rise.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 35 min read


Financial Independence After Narcissistic Abuse: A Path to Healing
Many survivors do not realise they were experiencing financial abuse until after the relationship ends. Narcissistic abuse often includes coercive control, and finances are one of the easiest ways to maintain power.

strengthofaqueen
Feb 157 min read


Support, Safety, and Hope for Survivors of Domestic Violence during the Holiday Season
For many survivors of domestic violence, the holiday season is not a time of joy, but of heightened fear, loneliness, and emotional strain. Abuse does not pause for Christmas, and healing does not follow a festive calendar. If the holidays feel heavy, unsafe, or triggering, know this: you are not weak, ungrateful, or alone. Support, safety, and hope still exist, even now.

strengthofaqueen
Dec 15, 20255 min read


The 10 Principles of Strength Of A Queen: A Manifesto for Healing and Empowerment after Narcissistic Abuse.
At Strength Of A Queen, our 10 Principles guide healing, empowerment, and self-worth. From safe love to sisterhood, we remind every woman that her voice matters, her boundaries are valid, and her crown is never lost even on the hard days. Healing is your birth right, and you are still a Queen.

strengthofaqueen
Sep 7, 20255 min read


Unveiling the Strength of a Queen
Every one of us carries a spark of power within. But when I think about the Queen strength and resilience, I see something truly remarkable. It’s not just about power or authority. It’s about grace, courage, and the ability to rise again and again. Today, I want to share with you what it means to embody this strength and how you can nurture it in your own life.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 25, 20253 min read


Rebuilding Confidence After Emotional Abuse: A Journey Towards Self-Discovery
Emotional abuse leaves scars that aren’t always visible, but they are no less real. Survivors often describe feeling like a shadow of who they once were.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 21, 20254 min read


Generational Wounds: Understanding Abuse Trauma in Older Adults and Pathways to Support
In many communities, whether in the UK, Africa, the Caribbean, Asia, or elsewhere the older generations were raised during a time when “family business” stayed behind closed doors. There was no language for emotional abuse, no legal protection for marital rape, and no cultural encouragement to question authority.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 17, 20256 min read


Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Immaturity
Emotional immaturity can be tricky to spot, especially when it shows up in people we care about or even in ourselves. It’s not about age or intelligence but about how someone handles feelings, relationships, and challenges.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 12, 20254 min read


Breaking Down Narcissism and How It Shows Up in Romantic Relationships
Narcissism in romantic relationships isn’t always loud or obvious—it can be subtle, intoxicating, and deeply damaging. From love-bombing and emotional manipulation to control masked as care, this post breaks down how narcissism truly shows up in love, why it’s so hard to spot, and how to protect your emotional well-being.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 10, 20254 min read


BIFF Method for Communicating with a Narcissist: Scripts, Examples and Boundaries
Struggling to communicate with a narcissist? The BIFF method—Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm offers a simple, powerful strategy to protect your peace while getting your point across. Learn how to respond without getting dragged into drama.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 26, 20253 min read


10 Things You Gave Up in a Narcissistic Relationship (Without Realising It)
Narcissistic relationships don’t always start off toxic. In fact, they often begin with love bombing, grand gestures, and emotional intensity that feels too good to be true. But slowly something changes. You begin to shrink while they expand. Their needs consume yours, and before you know it, you’ve sacrificed more than you ever intended.

strengthofaqueen
May 26, 20254 min read


10 Manipulation Tactics Narcissists Use (And How to Spot Them)
In this blog, we’ll break down 10 of the most common manipulation tactics used by narcissists and help you spot the signs before you fall deeper into the cycle of abuse.

strengthofaqueen
May 15, 20254 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: 7 Steps to Rebuild Your Life and Identity!
Recovering from narcissistic abuse is a profound journey of healing and self-discovery. This guide outlines seven essential steps to help you reclaim your identity and rebuild your life.

strengthofaqueen
May 6, 20252 min read


Unveiling the Silent Stories: Women's Experiences of Healing in Abusive Relationships
Storytelling has long been a method for sharing personal experiences, offering wisdom, and building connections. For many women who have endured abusive relationships, sharing their stories becomes a crucial pathway to healing, empowerment, and clarity. While often originating from challenges, these narratives also highlight resilience and recovery.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 16, 20254 min read


Who is Responsible for Teaching the Next Generation About Healthy Relationships and What Can We Do Now?
In today’s world, conversations about relationships are everywhere from social media and reality TV to classrooms and homes. But despite the constant exposure to relationships, young people are still struggling to navigate them in a healthy and fulfilling way.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 13, 20255 min read
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