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How to Identify Your Feelings After Narcissistic Abuse, Numbness, or Shutdown
After narcissistic abuse, many survivors struggle to identify what they are feeling. Emotional numbness, confusion, and shutdown are common trauma responses. This guide explores gentle, practical ways to reconnect with emotions and rebuild self-trust.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 54 min read


The Shame of Narcissistic & Domestic Abuse and Why Victims Find It Hard to Speak Out
Many survivors of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse struggle to speak out due to shame, fear, trauma, and safety concerns. This article explores why silence is often misunderstood and how survivors can begin seeking support safely and without judgement.

strengthofaqueen
May 135 min read


More Than Difficult In-Laws: Understanding Enmeshed Narcissistic Family System
When you enter a relationship, you expect to build a connection with one person. But for many, the reality is far more complex. You are not just entering a relationship, you are entering a system.
In some families, what appears to the outside world as “close-knit” can, behind closed doors, feel suffocating, controlling, and emotionally unsafe. These are often enmeshed family systems.

strengthofaqueen
Apr 115 min read


The First 1000 Days: Why Domestic Violence Is a Child Development Issue
The first 1000 days of a child’s life shape their brain, emotional security, and lifelong health. When domestic violence is present, toxic stress can disrupt attachment, development, and wellbeing. This is not just a relationship issue. It is a child development and public health issue that demands awareness, protection, and early support.

strengthofaqueen
Feb 243 min read


Support, Safety, and Hope for Survivors of Domestic Violence during the Holiday Season
For many survivors of domestic violence, the holiday season is not a time of joy, but of heightened fear, loneliness, and emotional strain. Abuse does not pause for Christmas, and healing does not follow a festive calendar. If the holidays feel heavy, unsafe, or triggering, know this: you are not weak, ungrateful, or alone. Support, safety, and hope still exist, even now.

strengthofaqueen
Dec 15, 20255 min read


16 Days of Activism 2025: Raising Awareness, Protecting Survivors, and Standing Together
The 16 Days of Activism 2025 is a global call to end gender-based violence and stand with survivors. For many healing from narcissistic abuse, this campaign brings validation, awareness, and hope. It highlights hidden forms of emotional and psychological harm while reminding survivors that safety and dignity are human rights. Healing is activism, and every step forward is a reclaiming of power.

strengthofaqueen
Nov 28, 20254 min read


Rebuilding Confidence After Emotional Abuse: A Journey Towards Self-Discovery
Emotional abuse leaves scars that aren’t always visible, but they are no less real. Survivors often describe feeling like a shadow of who they once were.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 21, 20254 min read


Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Immaturity
Emotional immaturity can be tricky to spot, especially when it shows up in people we care about or even in ourselves. It’s not about age or intelligence but about how someone handles feelings, relationships, and challenges.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 12, 20254 min read


Breaking Down Narcissism and How It Shows Up in Romantic Relationships
Narcissism in romantic relationships isn’t always loud or obvious—it can be subtle, intoxicating, and deeply damaging. From love-bombing and emotional manipulation to control masked as care, this post breaks down how narcissism truly shows up in love, why it’s so hard to spot, and how to protect your emotional well-being.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 10, 20254 min read


From Victim to Queen: Reclaiming Power After Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse
In the healing space, we often hear words like survivor, warrior, thriver. These are beautiful, strong, and valid. But here’s the truth most people avoid:
Before you became a survivor, you were a victim.

strengthofaqueen
Aug 5, 20253 min read


BIFF Method for Communicating with a Narcissist: Scripts, Examples and Boundaries
Struggling to communicate with a narcissist? The BIFF method—Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm offers a simple, powerful strategy to protect your peace while getting your point across. Learn how to respond without getting dragged into drama.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 26, 20253 min read


Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: The Hidden Challenges
Co-parenting is often seen as the gold standard for separated parents working together, prioritising the child, and maintaining respectful communication. But what happens when the person you're co-parenting with is a narcissist? When manipulation, control, and emotional games are the norm, not the exception, traditional co-parenting is not just hard; it’s dangerous.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 1, 20254 min read


10 Things You Gave Up in a Narcissistic Relationship (Without Realising It)
Narcissistic relationships don’t always start off toxic. In fact, they often begin with love bombing, grand gestures, and emotional intensity that feels too good to be true. But slowly something changes. You begin to shrink while they expand. Their needs consume yours, and before you know it, you’ve sacrificed more than you ever intended.

strengthofaqueen
May 26, 20254 min read


10 Manipulation Tactics Narcissists Use (And How to Spot Them)
In this blog, we’ll break down 10 of the most common manipulation tactics used by narcissists and help you spot the signs before you fall deeper into the cycle of abuse.

strengthofaqueen
May 15, 20254 min read


✍️ Write It Out: 5 Journaling Prompts to Help You Let Go After Narcissistic Abuse!
Letting go after surviving narcissistic abuse isn’t easy it’s courageous. The emotional scars run deep, and the manipulation often leaves survivors questioning their reality and self-worth. But one powerful tool that can help reclaim your voice and clarity is journaling.

strengthofaqueen
May 3, 20252 min read


Narcissism and Religion: Understanding the Intersection Without Judgment
Religion is a deeply personal and powerful part of many people’s lives. For some, it’s a source of comfort, guidance, and hope. For others, especially survivors of narcissistic abuse, religion can also be a complicated subject.

strengthofaqueen
Apr 10, 20254 min read


Abuse and Culture: Is It Still a Taboo?
Many cultures still struggle with openly addressing the issue of abuse. Cultural norms, traditions, and societal expectations often determine how abuse is perceived, reported, and addressed within different communities.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 22, 20254 min read


Surviving Narcissistic Abuse as an Undiagnosed Neurodivergent Person: A Silent Struggle
Living with undiagnosed neurodivergence presents its own set of challenges, but when combined with narcissistic abuse, it becomes an overwhelming and deeply isolating experience.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 16, 20254 min read


Unveiling the Silent Stories: Women's Experiences of Healing in Abusive Relationships
Storytelling has long been a method for sharing personal experiences, offering wisdom, and building connections. For many women who have endured abusive relationships, sharing their stories becomes a crucial pathway to healing, empowerment, and clarity. While often originating from challenges, these narratives also highlight resilience and recovery.

strengthofaqueen
Mar 16, 20254 min read


Reality Relationship TV Shows - Shaping Young Audiences' Perceptions of Relationships
Do Reality TV shows promote healthy relationship ideals, or do they distort reality, necessitating a change in their portrayal of romance?

strengthofaqueen
Mar 16, 20254 min read
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