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Practical Solutions for Managing Family Conflicts
Family life is a beautiful journey, but it is not without its bumps. Conflicts and misunderstandings can arise even in the closest of families. When tensions run high, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forward. I want to share some practical solutions for managing family conflicts that I have found helpful. These strategies are designed to bring calm, understanding, and connection back into your home. Understanding the Roots of Family Conflicts Before we

strengthofaqueen
Jan 64 min read


Welcome To 2026: Your Year of Intention and Self-Love
The start of a new year often arrives with noise. New goals. New rules. New versions of who we think we should be. There is pressure to move faster, do more, and fix everything all at once. This year does not need to be that. Instead of chasing transformation through exhaustion, this is the year of intention and self-love. A year where you choose yourself deliberately. A year where growth is rooted in care, not punishment. A year where your worth is not tied to productivity,

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Jan 44 min read


Support, Safety, and Hope for Survivors of Domestic Violence during the Holiday Season
For many survivors of domestic violence, the holiday season is not a time of joy, but of heightened fear, loneliness, and emotional strain. Abuse does not pause for Christmas, and healing does not follow a festive calendar. If the holidays feel heavy, unsafe, or triggering, know this: you are not weak, ungrateful, or alone. Support, safety, and hope still exist, even now.

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Dec 15, 20255 min read


16 Days of Activism 2025: Raising Awareness, Protecting Survivors, and Standing Together
The 16 Days of Activism 2025 is a global call to end gender-based violence and stand with survivors. For many healing from narcissistic abuse, this campaign brings validation, awareness, and hope. It highlights hidden forms of emotional and psychological harm while reminding survivors that safety and dignity are human rights. Healing is activism, and every step forward is a reclaiming of power.

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Nov 28, 20254 min read


The Truth About Healing: It’s Not Linear, But It’s Worth It!
Healing isn’t about getting over the past — it’s learning to live with what happened and still choose peace. It’s messy, slow, and powerful. You’re not broken for still hurting or weak for needing time. Every boundary, every breath of calm, every moment you choose yourself is proof you’re healing. It’s not about becoming who you were, it’s about becoming who you were always meant to be.

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Oct 27, 20254 min read


The 10 Principles of Strength Of A Queen: A Manifesto for Healing and Empowerment after Narcissistic Abuse.
At Strength Of A Queen, our 10 Principles guide healing, empowerment, and self-worth. From safe love to sisterhood, we remind every woman that her voice matters, her boundaries are valid, and her crown is never lost even on the hard days. Healing is your birth right, and you are still a Queen.

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Sep 7, 20255 min read


Unveiling the Strength of a Queen
Every one of us carries a spark of power within. But when I think about the Queen strength and resilience , I see something truly...

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Aug 25, 20253 min read


Rebuilding Confidence After Emotional Abuse: A Journey Towards Self-Discovery
Emotional abuse leaves scars that aren’t always visible, but they are no less real. Survivors often describe feeling like a shadow of who...

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Aug 21, 20254 min read


Generational Wounds: Understanding Abuse Trauma in Older Adults and Pathways to Support
A Culture of Silence In many communities, whether in the UK, Africa, the Caribbean, Asia, or elsewhere the older generations were raised...

strengthofaqueen
Aug 17, 20256 min read


Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Immaturity
Emotional immaturity can be tricky to spot, especially when it shows up in people we care about or even in ourselves. It’s not about age...

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Aug 12, 20254 min read


Mastering the BIFF Method for Effective Communication
Struggling to communicate with a narcissist? The BIFF method—Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm offers a simple, powerful strategy to protect your peace while getting your point across. Learn how to respond without getting dragged into drama.

strengthofaqueen
Jun 26, 20253 min read


Understanding Narcissism Vs Emotional Maturity: Your Path to Safe Dating Again
When you've survived narcissistic abuse, stepping back into the dating scene can be daunting. You become hyper-aware of red flags and...

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Jun 16, 20255 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: 7 Steps to Rebuild Your Life and Identity!
7 Steps to Rebuild Your Life and Identity after Narcissistic Abuse!

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May 6, 20252 min read


✍️ Write It Out: 5 Journaling Prompts to Help You Let Go After Narcissistic Abuse!
Letting go after surviving narcissistic abuse isn’t easy—it’s courageous. The emotional scars run deep, and the manipulation often leaves survivors questioning their reality and self-worth. But one powerful tool that can help reclaim your voice and clarity is journaling.

strengthofaqueen
May 3, 20252 min read


Understanding the Traits of Narcissistic Abuse: A Guide to Healing and Awareness!
Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological manipulation that leaves you feeling confused, isolated, and drained. While narcissism itself is a personality trait, when it manifests in abusive behaviour's, it becomes a toxic cycle that deeply impacts the lives of those involved.

strengthofaqueen
Feb 22, 20254 min read
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