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Embodying the Strength of a Queen
Every day, I remind myself that strength is not just about physical power or loud declarations. True strength is quiet, steady, and deeply rooted in resilience. It is the strength in recovery that defines us, shapes us, and propels us forward. When I think about embodying the strength of a queen, I see a journey of courage, healing, and unwavering self-belief. This journey is not reserved for royalty or fairy tales. It is accessible to all of us, especially when we face chall

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Oct 204 min read


What is Narcissistic Family Mobbing, and How to Deal With It.
Narcissistic family mobbing happens when relatives or in-laws unite against one person, often led by a dominant narcissist. The target is blamed, isolated, and excluded to protect the narcissist’s power. This can erode self-worth, strain marriages, and leave deep scars. Healing means recognizing the pattern, setting firm boundaries, creating distance, and building chosen family. Even if your spouse or their family won’t validate you, you can reclaim your peace, identity, and 

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Sep 165 min read


Survivor Energy: Why You’re Stronger Than You Realize
Being a survivor isn’t about hiding scars, it’s about carrying them with strength and choosing life each day. The word survivor can feel heavy, sometimes empowering, sometimes limiting. Society often misuses it, expecting constant inspiration while overlooking the pain. But reclaiming the word is powerful. It’s saying, this is my story now. Survival isn’t perfection, it’s persistence, standing tall in the messy, honest truth of your journey.

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Sep 156 min read


The 10 Principles of Strength Of A Queen: A Manifesto for Healing and Empowerment after Narcissistic Abuse.
At Strength Of A Queen, our 10 Principles guide healing, empowerment, and self-worth. From safe love to sisterhood, we remind every woman that her voice matters, her boundaries are valid, and her crown is never lost even on the hard days. Healing is your birth right, and you are still a Queen.

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Sep 75 min read


Generational Wounds: Understanding Abuse Trauma in Older Adults and Pathways to Support
A Culture of Silence In many communities, whether in the UK, Africa, the Caribbean, Asia, or elsewhere the older generations were raised...

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Aug 176 min read


What Is Love-Bombing, and Why Does It Feel So Real?
When someone showers you with affection, attention, and compliments in the early days of a relationship, it can feel like everything...

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Aug 25 min read


Reclaiming Your Power After Narcissistic Abuse
Recovering from emotional abuse is more than just healing; it's about reclaiming your power and rediscovering your worth. Many people shy...

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Jul 44 min read


Understanding Narcissism Vs Emotional Maturity: Your Path to Safe Dating Again
When you've survived narcissistic abuse, stepping back into the dating scene can be daunting. You become hyper-aware of red flags and...

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Jun 165 min read


Breaking the Silence: Domestic Violence, Culture, and the Path to Empowerment!
Domestic violence is a deeply rooted issue that transcends borders, cultures, and societal norms. For survivors, the journey to reclaim their lives can feel overwhelming, especially when cultural expectations and stigmas compound the pain. While it’s vital to acknowledge the gravity of abuse, it’s equally crucial to shine a light on empowerment, resilience, and recovery.

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Dec 31, 20243 min read


Reflection: What I learned as a British born Nigerian married to a Nigerian born Nigerian.
There is a BIG difference between Nigerians born and bred in the UK and Nigerians born and bred in Nigeria! We were basically generations apart.

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Dec 30, 20244 min read


10 Tips for Navigating Cultural Differences in a Relationship
Navigating cultural differences requires understanding, patience, and open communication. Whether you’re in an intercultural relationship or considering entering one, these 10 tips will help you foster understanding and harmony.

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Dec 29, 20242 min read
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